10 weeks after surgery today..."Don't sweat the small stuff "
Home bound and still feeling super content, learning more about myself, watching the fire, sipping tea, writing, reading, sewing, beading, or simply just being.
I'm not able to put any weight on it yet, but I have slowly noticed change. I can eat at the island again, I can move my foot more, I have very little nerve pain, I can be up on my scooter for longer periods of time without discomfort, but the biggest one for me is, I can get myself safely in and out of the shower. This is definitely a process, I love how through circumstance, it deepens my appreciation of the simple things. Now when I shower, getting myself into a chair, I am beyond grateful for the hot water, I turn on the tap slowly with a mop handle, sitting in the cold water, waiting for it to turn warm. I have always heard this is good for me, but never wanted to do it, maybe I will keep doing it, even when I don't have to anymore. It's funny how that happens, it's often through going without, or loosing something or someone, being forced to see or do things differently, that I appreciate everything so much more, then the little things become so big. It's kinda like having no power for a period of time, there are so many gifts in it, I always love the quiet, cooking in new ways, playing games, little screen time, more connection, but I always miss how convenient having power and water is and all of the modern amenities it brings, but I soon loose sight of it, until the next time it goes out and I do the same cycle all over again, almost as if I had never been there before. There has been so many revelations in the last couple months, so many places I have been shown where I can loosen my grip, take a deep breath and do things differently. I have learned that mopping my floors or making my bed isn't nearly as important as I thought it was, I learned that people come to visit me and really don't care how clean my house is, although I prefer it clean, it's ok when things aren't exactly how I like them to be. I also learned how I don't have to make huge meals every day and make absolutely everything from scratch, that other people can do my grocery shopping, that it really doesn't matter if they buy the wrong thing or the produce doesn't look like the one I would of picked out, I have noticed when I feel overwhelmed and what has brought me there, the saying, "don't sweat the small stuff” has really hit home. This time I'm soaking it all up, I am paying attention to these simple slow ways, having deep gratitude for everyday things, allowing my body to rest and be in ease, I don't want to forget, or need to be taken to the places I have gone before to remember, this time I want to carry it with me.